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Changing Your Mind Is Part of the Process

leesouthey
2 days ago
6 min read

Changing your mind can feel like a problem.

You made a decision.

You explained it.

Perhaps you asked other people to act on it.

Maybe you defended it when it was challenged.

And then something changes.

New information appears.

The situation develops differently from what you expected.

An assumption turns out to be wrong.

A consequence becomes visible that you had not anticipated.

Now what?

Too often, changing course is treated as evidence that the original decision was weak.

As though a good decision should remain correct forever.

But circumstances change.

New information appears.

People change.

Systems change.

What worked in one context may need to be reconsidered in another. Human System is deliberately designed without a final state in which everything is considered complete; its cycle creates a route back to learning as circumstances change.

Changing your mind is not necessarily a failure of judgement.

Sometimes it is the result of better information.

A decision does not have to become a permanent position

There is a difference between making a decision and becoming attached to it.

A decision can be firm.

People may need clarity.

Action may need to follow.

Responsibilities may need to be allocated.

But firmness does not require us to pretend that nothing could ever justify revisiting the decision.

One of the most useful questions we can ask when making an important decision is:

What would change our mind?

That question does something important.

It keeps the decision open to evidence.

It asks us to think in advance about what information, consequence or change in circumstances would justify reconsidering what we have decided.

Human System is clear that a decision can be firm without pretending to be permanent. Knowing what might justify revisiting it helps prevent a decision from becoming a declaration of certainty.

The problem with defending yesterday's answer

Once we have made a decision, it can become personally attached to us.

We may have argued for it.

We may have persuaded others.

We may have invested time, money or reputation in it.

So when evidence suggests it isn't working as expected, changing course can feel uncomfortable.

It may be easier to defend the original decision.

To explain away the evidence.

To insist that we just need more time.

Or to keep going because stopping would mean admitting that something was wrong.

But this is where organisations can become trapped by their own decisions.

The original decision may have been perfectly reasonable at the time.

That doesn't mean it remains the best decision now.

A good decision should be judged partly by what was reasonably knowable when it was made. Review then asks what happened, what was expected, what was actually known and what was missed, rather than simply trying to prove that the original decision was right.

That distinction matters.

You do not have to decide that your earlier self was foolish in order to decide differently today.

New information should change something

Post 9 asked:

What will be different because we now know this?

Sometimes the answer is that our decision needs to be different.

That is adaptation.

Not change for the sake of change.

Not constantly reversing direction.

But allowing new understanding to influence what happens next.

If we learn something important and then continue exactly as before, we need to ask why.

Perhaps the new information isn't sufficiently reliable.

Perhaps the original decision still stands after review.

Perhaps changing course would create greater problems.

Those may all be legitimate conclusions.

But they should be conclusions we reach consciously.

Not simply the result of inertia.

Human System treats refinement as the point at which learning becomes practical adjustment: asking what worked, what should stop, what needs changing and whether we are changing the right thing.

Changing your mind is not the same as being inconsistent

This is another distinction worth protecting.

Inconsistency can mean changing your position without good reason.

Adaptation means changing your position because there is a reason.

The reason might be:

  • new evidence;

  • a change in circumstances;

  • an assumption proving incorrect;

  • an unintended consequence becoming clear;

  • learning that an approach is not producing what was expected.

The important thing is that the change can be explained.

What did we understand before?

What have we learned since?

What has changed?

Why does that mean we need to think or act differently now?

That is not indecision.

It is transparent judgement.

Sometimes we need to change something smaller

Changing course does not always mean abandoning everything.

This matters because organisations can sometimes swing between two extremes.

Either:

We keep everything exactly as it is.

Or:

We start again.

Often, neither is necessary.

Perhaps the decision remains sound but implementation needs to change.

Perhaps the process works but one part of it does not.

Perhaps expectations need clarifying.

Perhaps a handover needs improving.

Perhaps the organisation has learned something that should become normal practice.

Refinement can be small or substantial. Human System explicitly includes practical adjustments such as a clearer instruction, a different conversation, a better handover or a change to a process.

The question is not always:

Do we abandon the decision?

It may be:

What needs to change now that we understand more?

Learning has to survive the moment

There is another challenge.

Organisations can learn something important in the immediate aftermath of an event and then slowly forget it.

A good conversation takes place.

A review identifies useful changes.

People agree what needs to happen.

For a while, things are different.

Then attention moves on.

New pressures arrive.

People leave.

Priorities change.

And eventually the organisation returns to doing things as it did before.

That is why adaptation is not simply about deciding to change.

Useful learning has to find a place in how people actually work.

Human System calls this embedding: considering what should become routine, where it belongs, who owns it, whether it will survive beyond the person who introduced it and whether the new practice is actually helping.

The aim is not to preserve every lesson forever.

It is to make useful learning available when it matters.

Human System remains open to change

For me, this is one of the most important tests of the whole approach.

If Human System asks people to remain open to evidence, review their assumptions and learn from what happens, then the framework itself should be prepared to do the same.

If experience shows that something doesn't work well, it should be examined.

If a tool is confusing, it should be improved.

If a safeguard is missing, it should be considered.

If the language creates an unintended consequence, that matters.

Human System should not be protected from the process it asks others to follow. The framework itself is intended to be refined in the light of experience and evidence.

That doesn't mean changing purpose every time somebody disagrees.

Purpose gives us something to remain answerable to.

But how we achieve that purpose should remain open to learning.

The first cycle is never the last

This is where the first ten Insights come together.

We began by asking what we are actually here to do.

Purpose.

Then we asked whether knowing is the same as understanding.

Understanding.

We looked beyond visible problems.

Systems Thinking.

We considered different perspectives without confusing understanding with agreement.

Perspective.

Then we decided.

Judgement.

We looked at the person and the conditions around them.

Context.

We separated accountability from blame.

Responsibility.

We asked what happens after something goes wrong.

Learning.

And finally, we come here.

Adaptation.

But adaptation does not end the process.

It takes us back to understanding.

Because once something has changed, the system has changed.

There is new information.

New consequences.

New questions.

The cycle continues.

Human System is structured across time as a cycle of understanding what is happening, deciding, acting, reviewing what happened, refining what needs changing and embedding useful learning. It is deliberately unfinished because circumstances and systems continue to change.

Changing your mind is not always a sign that you were wrong. Sometimes it is a sign that you have learned enough to think differently.

And for me, that is where adaptation fits within Human System.

We do not learn so that we can defend yesterday's answers more effectively. We learn so that tomorrow's judgement can be better.

 
 
 

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